A Girl Goes to the Bar Alone

A Girl Goes to the Bar Alone

Everyone has at least one weird thing on his or her bucket list. There are probably more weird things on mine, but the one that sticks out right now has to be –wait for it—sitting at a bar, and ordering a drink, and not giving a toss what the guy at the next table thinks. (There’s always that one guy throwing reckless glances, undressing you with his eyes, sending a drink your way hoping your panties will come…

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THE CHILDLESS STEPMUM
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THE CHILDLESS STEPMUM

I was going through my emails and I came across a message that a fellow step mum had sent me. She was going through a rough time trying to get pregnant but without success. She has undergone 3 IVF treatments and she is on the verge of losing hope of ever conceiving. The husband has been extremely supportive and keeps on encouraging her , never mind the fact that he is unable to understand why she is trying…

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LETTING GO OF FIRSTS

LETTING GO OF FIRSTS

Dating a partner who has been married before is not only a science in itself but there are so many things that you will encounter in your journey that you would have never guessed will even be an issue. I have always been attracted to men who are older than me.  I am not sure if it’s because of loosing my dad when I was very young and so I have unconsciously always been looking for that father…

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5 TIPS TO SMOOTHING THE STEP-PARENTING TRANSITION.

5 TIPS TO SMOOTHING THE STEP-PARENTING TRANSITION.

It can take years to adjust to the new role of a Stepparent, but with these 5 tips, you are sure to have an easier transition into your role. 1. Be fully aware that the first years of marriage are chaotic. This is the hard truth. In the beginning, everyone is trying to understand each other, and adjust to the new change in the home. Change as you know it is very uncomfortable, and in this case, it is…

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Finding your Step Mum Squad

Finding your Step Mum Squad

Hi guys. It’s been a while since I wrote an advice piece. Well am back and ready to share more about my journey as a step mum and the dynamics of our happy blended family. After I started this journey, it wasn’t long before it all started to get overwhelming and I remember how isolated and alone I felt, with no one to share the challenges I was going through. To make matters worse, I didn’t know of…

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