Men can sometimes be hard to read. You could be dating a man for months and think he’s serious, but to him, he’s just having a good time. I mean, no one wants to waste their time and end up broken-hearted. There is nothing worse than being blindsided, and this happens all too often. So looking for signs of his seriousness is not too far-fetched.
No problem – I’ve got you covered. Truth is, men are easy to read. You just need a little nudge in the right direction to be able to tell if he’s really serious about you.
He talks about the future with you
When a man is really serious about you, he sees a future with you in it. So when you’re around, he talks a lot about the future and involves you in his plan. His vision of the future is one that includes you in it, and he makes that known to you. He doesn’t only make abstract, unrealistic plans. He will have clear goals and deadlines and he will work towards a future that brings you even deeper into the fold.
He Takes Your Opinions into Consideration
When a man is really serious about you, your opinions matter to him. If he’s asking you your opinion on decisions he has to make, that’s a very good sign. And if he’s taking your opinion into consideration and changing his own because of it, that’s even better. For example, if he thinks about investing in a business, you will be the first he will consult and ask if it is worth it.
He walks the talk
Talk is cheap. A man can promise you heaven and earth. But if his actions don’t match his words, then he isn’t serious at all with taking your relationship to the next level.
You are his priority
A man who can drop anything to come to your rescue is a keeper! If you can rely on him for basically anything, then that’s a good sign. A man who is not serious about you will complain about being too busy with other things such as friends and work to help you out.
You have met his family and friends
A man who is really serious about you is proud to have you and is eager for his friends and family to meet you if you haven’t already met them. Not only have you met his family and friends, but you also know them personally. If you haven’t been introduced to his close contacts, that’s a red flag. He might be hiding you from the world because he is already entangled up in other situations.